The key to a fantastic love life is stressing love – work on your relationship every day and the headaches will magically be cured. Talk to your wife every single day, and I mean really listening to her, to her problems and her worries. Let her express her fears and you will be opening a wide road for her to express her desires.

Studies show that men who do shores also get more sex. So do the dishes, clean the house, cook some meals. You don’t have to do anything fancy, just show her you consider that sharing is not just about having sex but also about sharing the work and the problems.

Safety is also very important. And I don’t mean safe sex. Women need to feel safe in order to let themselves go. If you want fantastic sex hold your wife in your arms before and after making love, snuggle her at night, hug her all the time.

And on the subject of hugging, don’t forget about passionate kisses. Don’t ever let a day go by without kissing your wife like it was the first time. In fact, always act as if you were still trying to make her fall in love with you – send her love letters, bring her a rose, go out on a date.

Spicing up your relationship has a lot to do with remembering the times when you were just dating. If you want to have more sex you need to be the ultimate romantic, you need to go back to your high school years and act like a boy who was just struck by unbelievable love. Your wife will watch her dreams come true and, in exchange, you will get terrific sex that will scare the neighbors.

Search the internet for a character description of the Greek God Priapus, and you’ll more often than not find a statuesque image of a unusual God, who is depicting with a large appendage.

Notably remembered as being the god of fertility, growth and health, in truth Priapus is best remembered for his graphic representations within art and his continuing influence on the male fascination with the idea of a enlarged penis.

Who was Priapus?

The son of Aphrodite and Dionysus, myth suggests that Priapus was cursed by the Goddess Hera as punishment for his mother’s beauty.

Refused admittance by the other Gods to Mount Olympus and forced to live amongst shepherds, it was Priapus’s frustration at being impotent that first led to his enlarged penis becoming permanently erect.

Destined to be impotent, ugly and foul-minded, Priapus earned his reputation for being lustful after trying to rape the nymph Lotis. Unsuccessful in this mission, Priapus’s frustration at being impotent resulted in his penis becoming permanently erect and his body, unable to move.

What was he worshipped for?

Priapus had two roles within Greek society. One as an agricultural deity who was commonly celebrated through offerings of fruits, flowers, vegetables and fish; and secondly as a god ruled by his lustful nature.

Even to this day, Priapus is more easily recognized for his enlarged penis, than for his real purposes within Greek history. Yet when you correlate his story with that of penis enlargement, it is easy to see why men have such a fascination with it today.

Where does Priapus stand in modern society?

Look back over the last 2,000 years and mans’ fascination with attaining a larger penis can easily be linked to God’s such as Priapus. Remembered for being figures of authority, power and strength, Priapus is just one of many gods’ who inspired the historical development of penis enlargement.

Woven sleeves, weights or manually putting a slit in their shaft… these are just a sample of the methods developed over centuries by African tribes and the Polynesians in their mission to elongate their penis.

Over the last 20-30 years penis enlargement methods have radical changed as various methods, including surgery, penile exercises and arguably the most successful method, penis traction devices, are very much in the forefront of the mainstream market.

Myth 1 # Premature ejaculation must be related to some underlying disease

Premature ejaculation is not an illness, nor is it a disease nor does it indicate the presence of any underlying disease, but it definitely exists in the form of clinical diagnosis. Mostly it is psychological issues which cause premature ejaculation and not physical ones.

Myth 2 # I can last longer if I stop fantasizing about sexy stuff

Although many people will advice this technique of distraction, in reality it works only for some people and for others it simply doesn’t work. In short, you cannot treat this method as a solution.  Rather it will decrease your sensation of feeling the sexual pleasure.  If you want to control your premature ejaculation, you have to concentrate on your body and learn to control your urge, instead of just diverting yourself. With a little bit of practice, you will be able to do it and enjoy full physical satisfaction.

Myth 3 # some are born with it, some aren’t

The ability to control premature ejaculation isn’t an innate quality; those who are able to do it have previous masturbatory experiences or may have practiced self control with the help of previous bed partners.  You have to understand that ejaculation is just like urination and you should practice controlling premature ejaculation just the way you control your urge to urinate.

Myth 4 # you will be called a premature ejaculator when you cum in a few minutes

This is not wholly true. In many medical definitions there is a specific time limit and if you ejaculate within that you will be termed a premature ejaculator but to diagnose this problem, there are many other symptoms to be taken into account. Many definitions of premature ejaculation do not include time limits.

Myth 5 # this sexual dysfunction has no solution

On the contrary, with a little bit of practice, majority of the men learn to control their premature ejaculation on their own and there is just no need of any kind of medical intervention or drugs. You can read up the internet or take advice from other men to learn these techniques.

Myth 6 # I can treat premature ejaculation with pills

You should take recourse to behavioral methods to control this sexual dysfunction. You cannot treat premature ejaculation with pills as there are no FDA approved pills as such. But on the internet you will find several drugs to treat premature ejaculation, but you don’t need to waste money on them.

A fact that is further proved by studies performed by the Journal of Urology (1996) and Lifestyle Condoms (2004). In these 2 separate studies they came to the same conclusion that on average men are between 5.08 to 5.9 inches.

History behind this penis size obsession

As far back as 2,000 years ago, depictions of large members have been associated with figures of authority. Gods, leaders, people of position… every one of them is displayed as having a large penis. With this kind of background in place it is easy to see why some men strive to increase their penis size through penis enlargement methods. It is only natural.

Then there is the genetics of it all.

Until puberty, men experience limited penis growth. Stuck at 2.4 inches in length, it is only when their bodies begin to transgress into adulthood that their penis once more grows.

Now taking into consideration that there is no set age for puberty – with some beginning as early as 11 and others waiting until 15 years old – during this period no adolescent is the same. They are all at different stages of development which makes those locker rooms moments even more understandable. But as a result has left many men resting with these insecurities into adulthood.

Small penises – do they exist?

Unfortunately micropenises do exist and they occur in 0.6% of men.

Caused by a deficiency in testosterone levels during the 2^nd and 3^rd trimester of pregnancy, this hormone reduction results in a stunting in penis growth that will continue with them into adulthood.

These cases of micropenis though are rare, and are easily identifiable as individuals with this condition can only experience erection sizes of 2 inches, compared to the average male.

Luckily, advances in science and penis enlargement devices means this condition no longer has to feel like a problem but can be cured.

Traction devices in particular can encourage natural penis enlargement of 2.75 inches through the stimulation of new tissue cells within the penis chambers.

Basically, the human penis is made up of two parts: the shaft and the glans (also known as the head). The shaft is not a muscle as some have suggested. It is made of three columns of tissue, one of which continues forward to form the glans. The three columns are called Corpus Spongiosus, which forms the underside of the penis and the glans, and Corpora Cavernosa, which are two sections of tissue located next to each other on the upper side of the penis.The shaft is covered in skin, while the glans supports the loosely attached fold of skin known as the foreskin. The foreskin is attached to the underside of the penis, in an area called the frenum. And, lastly, the penis is traversed from one end to the other by the urethra. This canal serves as a passage for both urine, produced in the bladder, and the sperm, produced in the testicles.

Erection is achieved by filling the two Corpora Cavernosa with blood. Unlike some other mammals, humans have no erectile bone and have to rely instead on engorgement with blood to reach erection. When the erection is triggered by sexual stimulation, the arteries that bring blood to the penis dilate in order to increase blood flow. The sponge-like Corpora Cavernosa fills up with blood, which makes the penis stiff. The stiffer tissues constrict the veins that carry blood away from the penis in order to maintain the erection.

Every male baby is born with a full set of reproductive organs. However, these organs are not fully developed and remain so until the boy enters puberty. At puberty, usually between the ages of 10 and 14, the pituitary gland starts secreting hormones that induce the testicles to produce testosterone. Testosterone is the hormone that controls all the physical and many of the psychological traits that define man.

Its presence ensures the development of bigger bones and higher muscle mass in men. It is also responsible for the increase in penis and testicles size, the apparition of pubic hair and the deeper tone of the male voice. The penis stops growing at the end of puberty, which comes around the age of 18. However, there are many environment factors that may delay or accelerate the onset or the end of puberty. This means that some men may experience penis growth beyond the age of 18.

A common urban myth that almost anyone has heard of is the idea that penis size is linked to the size of another body part. The most common versions of this myth focus on the size of hands, feet, nose or overall height to determine the size of the penis. Actually, there is no such link. Although the development of the penis in the embryo is controlled by the same genes as the limbs, penis growth at puberty is entirely governed by testosterone and has nothing to do with the other parts of the body.

Some men are born with big penises. This is an undisputed fact of life whose causes are still a mystery to science. As stated above, there is no correlation between penis and body size. Studies conducted on bats have shown that the sexual organs and the brain require large quantities of energy to develop. At some point, the developing embryo decides whether it wants a bigger brain or a bigger set of sexual organs. However, science is still at a loss to understand how the decision is made and why.