Giving a woman an orgasm is the ultimate satisfaction for a man because he feels like he accomplished something and made his woman satisfied. This is a feeling that you are dying to experience and you really want to be able to give a girl an orgasm during sex and totally blow her mind.

Being able to please your woman doesn’t have to be this difficult. You can make your girl achieve an orgasm every single time you have sex or touch her. If you want to become the best lover she has ever had then you need to learn the secrets so you can use it tonight.

The G-Spot

A lot of people believe that not every woman can orgasm from sex. This is wrong. Every single woman has the ability to have an orgasm from sex; she just needs a man to make it happen.

When trying to give a woman an orgasm from sex, there are a few key tips that you should know. First of all, trying to stimulate her via the missionary position may not work, depending on the angle that you are working with. In order to make a woman climax from intercourse, you have to hit the g-spot. This is located 1-2 inches inside of the woman on the vaginal wall adjacent to her stomach. When you enter her missionary style, chances are you missing that area completely.

If you want to give a girl an orgasm during sex, try placing her legs on your shoulders as you are on top. This will lift her body so you are more apt to hit the right spot. As well, you can enter her from behind and the base of your penis will hit her g-spot.

Changing up the positions so it is beneficial for her is the most important key here. Try these tonight to get her to climax.You want her to crave your touch throughout the day and beg for you to please her when you see her at night.

To find out more about the female orgasm and how you can please your woman tonight, including what not to do, Click here now for “Female Orgasm Guide”

Finger Orgasm, What to do (5 Quick Tips)

There are many ways to make a woman orgasm but using your fingers is one of the most common ways. However, not many person know how to pleasure their women by using their fingers. Here are 5 quick tips that should help you to give your woman mind blowing orgasms.

Tip #1 – It is very important to ensure that your finger nails are short and properly filed. This will prevent you from causing any unnecessary harm to the sensitive areas of the vagina.

Tip #2 – Before you attempt to touch your woman’s vagina, you should administer some amount of foreplay. This is to turn her on so that she can get hot and ready for you. Some of the things you can do includes kissing her all over her body passionately, caressing her breast with your hands, sucking on her nipples as well as talking sexy to her.

Tip #3 – Once she is turned on, her vagina will be very lubricated. You can slide your hands over her thigh and slowing go as close as possible towards her vagina without touching it. This will tease her a bit and make her want you more and more.

Tip #4 – Use you pointer finger or index finger to rub her clitoris in various directions gently. This is important because you need the right pressure to really send her to mind blowing orgasms. You can pay attention to her body movements to see what pleases her and continue to do it.

Tip #5 – Another way to please your woman with your fingers is to hit her G-spot. This is located inside the vagina about 1-2 inches on the upper walls. This vary from women to women so you will have to go through trial and error in order to find the right spot. It will be a rigid area similar to the upper palate in your oral cavity. Once you find it, stimulate it in a come hither motion while going in and out. Continue to do this until you bring her to an intense orgasm.

You can definitely increase the likelihood of orgasm in your partner, by keeping your love life as varied as possible. To that end, you might like to read educational books to help your sex life with a boost. Check out  “Female Orgasm Guide” by Susan Johnsson & Paul Tony. The book covers every information you need to give your partner orgasm.

Our cheat sheet for your wife or girlfriend on how she can deepen your relationship by taking the lead in bed.

This article is an excerpt from Men, Love, & Sex: The Complete User’s Guide for Women by Men’s Health’s Editor-in-Chief, David Zinczenko. In it, thousands of men confess their well-guarded secrets about how they think and behave. The object of this article for you is to print it out and leave it somewhere where your wife or girlfriend will see it, and read it. That way, she’ll know what you want in bed without having to have that uncomfortable conversation. Believe us, she’ll heed our advice! That means a better sex life for both of you!

Question: Guys, how would you rate your current sex life?

It’s an A: 16 percent

It’s a B: 28 percent

It’s a C: 24 percent

It’s a D: 14 percent

It’s an F: 18 percent

If you’re shocked by the above statistics, well, I’m not surprised. Aren’t all guys just happy to get some? Isn’t sex to a man like leftovers to a dog — we don’t care if it’s Chick-fil-A or filet mignon? Clearly, that assumption is wrong. Fifty-six percent of the men we polled rated their sex lives as no better than a C. Out of 2,500 men, that’s 1,400 who find their bedroom action unsatisfying — and surely all of them can’t be dating Dame Edna.

What’s going on here?

The men I’ve spoken with — through the Men, Love & Sex poll, through my work at Men’s Health, and in my thirty-some years of listening to other guys — all seem to have one desire: They all wish their girlfriends or wives would turn the bedroom into a Sadie Hawkins dance once in a while.

On a scale of 1 to 10 (with a 1 being an anesthetized surgical patient and a 10 being a coked-up rocker), men rate the sexual aggressiveness of their current or most recent wife or girlfriend as a 5. What do we want? According to our poll, it’s an 8. Add in the fact that when men rate their best sexual experience — as in, best sexual experience ever — one common theme stands out: She takes charge. Take these guys as examples:

Andy, 31, a Web designer in California, says the best sex he ever had was when his girlfriend at the time steered the entire sexual situation — even though it involved her much more than it involved him. “She spontaneously masturbated in front of me, and she didn’t let me touch her or get myself undressed,” Andy says. “She asked me to tell her that she was turning me on (and she was!), so as I told her how sexy she was, she came closer and closer until she finally did shudder to an orgasm.”

John, a 27-year-old law student in Georgia, says that he’s turned on by the fact that his girlfriend’s aggressiveness in bed is a little bit like a man’s. “Recently I came home and she was dressed like the innocent school girl. Skirt, glasses, stockings — the whole look,” he says. “She took control of me and rode me over and over until she had an orgasm. God, do I love it. The sex is so great.”

If you don’t experiment with new things sex becomes a routine and the pleasure you get will be greatly reduced. If you are not excited like you used to don’t blame age – you are the one to blame. Inject some creativity into your love life and enjoy all the excitement of anticipating your next love night.

Here are 5 more sex around the house ideas…

1) Sometimes you need to be a man. Grab your woman and throw her in the bed, rip her clothes off (be careful here) and make love to her passionately, crying out her name and thoroughly exploring her body. This is something you don’t want to do all the time, which makes the few times really something.

2) Massage your wife. And I don’t mean just when you want to have sex. When she complains how tired she is massage her feet and back. When she wants to talk, listen to her. You want to be desired – when a woman wants a man the sex will be incredible. By making her know that you care about her you will leave her defenseless.

3) Pretend you aren’t married. Pretend like you need to conquer her all over again. Do all the things you did to get her attention and to make her fall in love with you. Leave her love letters, buy her small gifts (a rose or a candy works much better than expensive jewelry), call her and play the “no, you hang up” game…

4) Rent a hotel room for a night. Changing the setting may be all you need to completely spice up sex.

5) Send her a picture of a part of your body. Especially popular parts are the chest, your arms, your leg, and your bum. Then wait naked for her to get home.

Here are 5 Sex Around The House Ideas

1) Be a nice daddy. If you have kids play with them, read them stories, put them to bed, show interest in their education. Kids often make it difficult to have a wild love life but if you want your wife to make sex like there’s no tomorrow you want her to see you as a fabulous father.

2) Do household shores. Studies show that men who help around the house get more sex, and quality sex, than men who don’t. So put on the apron and cook dinner. Trust me, most women can’t resist a guy with an apron and you may end up being her dinner instead.

3) Cook an aphrodisiac meal. Foods such as chocolate, passion fruit, and nutmeg are proven aphrodisiacs. Other foods will stimulate your imagination – think strawberries and cream, wine, ice cream…

4) Role play. Everyone has seen it in the movies but few couples ever try it. Dress up and play in character – if you do it every once in a while it will spice up your imagination and who knows what secret fantasies she will reveal. When role playing be careful about using other people’s names or you may end up having an argument. In general women won’t mind role playing as celebrities (as long as you also role play one), but when you call her your young college girl neighbor’s name she may not be pleased.

5) Snuggle a lot. Sneak into your bed and snuggle her. Hold her in your arms before and after making love, make her feel safe and wanted. Women need safety in order to have sex and when they feel protected they really let themselves go.

1. The best position for his enjoyment

Practically every animal species utilizes the rear-entry “doggy-style” position, so it is a natural one for humans to enjoy, as well. While you won’t have face-to-face contact, there are many benefits. It’s great for guys because it gives them full control. This is one of the best positions for hitting her G-spot and allows him to fondle your breasts, stomach, clitoris, back, neck and other sensual spots. The main benefit for your man is that he’ll be able to get incredibly deep penetration (above-average guys need to be careful as deep thrusts might hit her cervix, which can be quite painful).

2. Find your man’s “hidden” zones

Yes, men love to be touched sensually too. I call these “hidden” zones because many people don’t realize, or forget, that these areas of the body LOVE attention. While many of these zones are obvious, like the lips, groin, and inner thighs, there are also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed, can drive your partner wild and even intensify their orgasm. Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms, chest and scalp are all really sensitive areas that love to be stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and watch how it pleases your partner.

3. Set a romantic mood

Think men aren’t romantic or wouldn’t appreciate it? Think again! Everyone loves a thoughtful and kind gesture. Of course you might think that
using candles, music, incense and even rose petals to set the mood of your lovemaking is a little too “cliché.” But he’ll think differently!
Your partner will LOVE YOU for this. Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone went to all the trouble to create a special lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years to come. Could this be so “cliché” because people enjoy it so much? Point made.

4. Give him a hand job

When beginning a genital massage, start with lighter, irregular strokes – like teasing. As you get further and further into it, stick with two or three
main strokes that your partner really enjoys. Developing a good rhythm that your partner can get into is the key to bringing your partner to orgasm with
a genital massage.

5. Please your man with more oral sex

If I had to give you one piece of advice to make your lovemaking perfect, it would be: learn the art of fellatio. It’s true, all men love it. It feels great and actually takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody have their mouth down there. In short, it’s an important part of lovemaking and is often the main event. Problem is, women often start fellatio by sucking on the penis straightaway when, actually, they should start with some playful teasing and soft touches. This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it heightens his anticipation. Make sure you use different techniques and your tongue, as well.

So there you have it. Five great ways to make your man more satisfied in the bedroom. While they’re all great, I would recommend putting most of your energy and time into learning fellatio, simply because men crave it so much and the loving smile and kisses you’ll probably get in return are definitely worth it.

About the author: Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of Blow by Blow: the complete guide to fellatio. Unfortunately, most women leave men frustrated and disappointed after fellatio. Learn to be one of the rare women who can satisfy him with oral sex. To learn more, visit the Blow By Blow website.

It’s true! Unfortunately, many women can go years without an orgasm from their partner, and we all know how hard it is to satisfy a woman.

Here are 10 tips to increase the chances she’ll reach climax, including the secret to multiple orgasms:

1. Start outside the bedroom – Want to increase the chances she’ll orgasm? When was the last time you surprised her with a little drawing, letter or
flowers and sent them to her at work? Believe it or not, creative and romantic gestures DO turn women on because love and lovemaking are interconnected in a woman’s brain. Do this and you can bet-your-bottom-dollar you’ll be doing more than just eating dinner when she walks in the door!

2. Relax her – It’s very hard for women to orgasm if they are stressed. Give her a quick back massage. Rub her shoulders, upper back and neck to melt away the tension.

3. Ignore the vagina – Did you know that prolonged foreplay actually increases the chances of her coming? That’s right. By kissing, caressing and
touching her LONGER, you’ll build the sexual tension and often the anticipation will be very powerful.

4. Change your focus – If you focus all your attention on the woman first, you’ll make love to her much more passionately. Think about it! If you’ve finished first and decide to help her come, you won’t have the enthusiasm and passion that’s needed to keep her hot and turned on.

5. Tip to last longer – Of course the first step to help her reach orgasm is by not coming. The best way I’ve found to not come is: Penetrate as normal
and when you feel like you’re about to come, simply move your hips in a circular motion (like swaying a hula hoop) and wait until the “little guys” subside
again. Now continue pleasuring.

6. Don’t use lubricants – Women have a natural lubricant that fills the vagina when they’re turned on. By using a product substitute, you’re only
fooling yourself. Without products, you’ll instantly know if things are working; but with them, you can never be sure.

7. Never too much clitoris – Did you know that once you’ve stimulated the clitoris for some time, a little thing called the clitoral hood will actually
come out and cover the clitoris to protect it from further direct stimulation? (And no, I’m not making this up!) The point is, once the clitoris is fully
stimulated, make sure you pleasure the G-spot next, whether it be with your hand, tongue or penis.

8. Find and stimulate the G spot – The G-spot is a zone that feels like the roof of your mouth and is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the
topside. (On the underside of her stomach.) There are two basic ways you can pleasure the G. With your fingers by doing a “come here” motion or with
a love position that helps hit the G-spot…

9. Use the best position – Not all love positions are made equal. The best one for women is the reverse missionary (woman on top). This is probably the
easiest position for a woman to climax because she can control the friction to her clitoris and/or G-spot.

10. Give her oral sex ­ The single best way to help a woman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms, is by going down on her (cunnilingus). While at first I
didn’t believe it, countless studies have been done to prove this fact. Oral sex is easier and much more satisfying for women than intercourse is.

Try the ABC’s with your tongue, ask what she likes, and mix it up with lots of different movements! However be VERY careful! With over 6,000 nerve
endings in the clitoris, make sure you know everything there is to know before poking your tongue around there, otherwise it could be really painful and, even worse, spoil the mood.

So there you have it ­ 10 tips you can start using right away to give women the most earth-shattering experience of their lives.

About the author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of Lick by Lick, the complete guide to giving women oral pleasure. Unfortunately, most men leave women
frustrated and disappointed after cunnilingus. Learn to be one of the rare men who can satisfy her with oral sex by visiting Lick By Lick

He equated penis size with sexual prowess.

Men seem to think that the bigger the penis the better. Guess what guys, size doesn’t matter…much. There are so many ways to pleasure a woman, and penetration is actually the least effective. Only 25% of women orgasm during intercourse. That doesn’t mean that 75% of men have tiny, unsatisfying penises, it just means that it’s difficult for women to cum during sex. So most of a woman’s climaxing happens during what you consider “foreplay,” which happens before your penis even touches her.

He told you he went down on some girl “for, like, two hours.”

This one even he may actually believe. When a man realizes a woman is going to let him stick his penis in her, every second leading up to that desirous act feels like an hour. It’s not. Most men also think that performing oral sex on a woman is just something you do to get her wet enough to handle your impressive member. Not true. What you consider foreplay is, to her, part of the sexual experience as a whole. Instead of rushing through it so you can get to the “actual sex part,” keep yourself tuned into her responses. Pleasing her can be pleasing yourself. And remember, women aren’t one-hit-and-quit like men when it comes to orgasms. So if you start the orgasm train early, she will definitely be impressed.

He brags about how long he can last.

Let’s put this to bed once and for all. Gentlemen, women do not want a man who can penetrate her continuously over the course of several hours. The genital area is home to some extremely delicate tissue, and the body can only produce so much lubrication. This is not to say that women don’t like sexual acts that last over the course of several hours. For a woman, sex begins the minute the decision is made to have the sex. This kissing, the caressing, and the dirty talk are as important to her as the penetration itself. If you allow yourself to be a part of that, you may be surprised at how intense the sexual experience can be for the both of you!

About the author: Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the founder of “The Virtuoso Lover“, teaching men how to become exceptional lovers. Unfortunately most men have no idea how to make ‘out-of-this-world’ love, which leaves women frustrated and disappointed. Learn to be one of the rare men that can satisfy women both physically and emotionally by visiting Virtuoso Lover Series.

It’s true. Including “prolonged foreplay,” you’re about to learn three ways to add new levels of passion and excitement to your lovemaking that will
bring you and your partner even closer. So here we go!

1. PROLONG YOUR FOREPLAY

An extended period of foreplay amplifies your sexual experience because it gives you time to build up sexual anticipation. Why does this work? It’s just human nature. Think about a big event in your life.

Whether it be a party, a holiday, or a major movie launch, chances are that you were so excited by the buildup and buzz that it made the experience 10
times better.

Well, the same rules apply to making love. So next time you spend some time under the sheets, make a conscious effort to explore your partner’s body.

Leave a trail of kisses all over their body, run your fingers along their skin and gaze lovingly into their eyes.

The more time you spend devoted to foreplay, the greater the experience for both of you. And if you want to feel the magic even more then…

2. TRY NEW THINGS WITH A “TWIST”

Now don’t get me wrong here, I’m not talking about JUST trying a new lovemaking position, tip, technique or even location. While these things
would definitely spice things up, you can make your experience even more fulfilling, simply by using a little added creativity.

For example: Why not learn a new technique ­­pack a picnic and head to a beautiful park for the day. And if you find a private spot, who knows what
might end up happening? Going on dates like these helps to bring back the magic that made you fall in love in the first place.

3. PLAY BEDROOM GAMES

Tasteful, fun and alluring sex games are one of the best ways to intensify orgasms and the entire lovemaking experience. Not only are they extremely
fun and have a lot of ‘replay value,’ but they actually accomplish BOTH the other tips at the same time too!

Because when you play a sex game you…
1. Automatically extend foreplay in a fun and interesting way
2. Try new things that the game tells you to do

And even while some games only consist of familiar tips and moves, you’ll be using them in new scenarios, which actually makes them feel new.

Maybe you’ll use a deck of cards or dice to create your own passionate play. Perhaps you’ll adapt a sport game for the bedroom. Or maybe you’ll just
want to use your bodies as the props. It doesn’t matter. Simply get excited and unleash some creativity!

So if you want to create a magical experience, remember there’s no better way than playful game that combines both prolonged foreplay and trying
new things.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of “100 Sex Games For Couples,” a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion and
intimacy to your experience. To read more, visit 100 Sex Games For Couples

Before trying to reach this spot, we must know where it is located. The g-spot is something like a female prostate located between the pubic bone and the cervix on the top side of vagina. The g-spot is a part of the urethral sponge, a tissue playing a great role during arousal : if correctly stimulated, this area can be very pleasurable, and lead to orgasm during sexual intercourse. Note that other women could also feel the urge to urinate when this spot is stimulated.

Indeed, this urethral tissue or sponge is like a cushion against the pubic bone and the vagina wall, surrounding the urethra. Mainly made of erectile tissue, filled with blood during arousal, it has a compressing effect on the urethra, preventing urination during sex. This tissue also contains the Skene’s glands, able to produce the famous female ejaculation (usually a fluid of clear color) men are so curious about. Other scientists think the g-spot is not really a physical spot, but more probably the clitoris deepest nerves passing through the urethral tissue and connecting with the spinal column.

An important point is that the fluid produced by the Skene’s glands during orgasm passes through urethra (as urine does) but must not be considered as urine or as an effect of urinary incontinence. This clear colored fluid is similar to what is produced by the prostate and that is why we can speak about female ejaculation.

The structure of this important tissue also varies during time and after the age of 30, occurring changes make the g-spot easier to reach. This is why women after 30 will be more than probably experiencing the best of their sexual life and pleasures.

But how can men reach this so mysterious spot ? In fact, 3 methods can be applied in order to reach this spot. These methods can be found in sex advices guides on the web.
1.For men having an upward curved penis, the missionary position is the best, because that kind of penis will exert greater pressure on the front wall of the vagina.
2.For men having a downward curved penis, or an uncurved penis, doggy style position is probably more suitable because of the pressure exerted against the front wall by the downward curved penis.
3.With the fingers or the tongue : you must push down on the clitoris and arce the tongue or fingers upwards. Note that fingers or tongue must be at least 1 – 3 inches inside the vagina…since the exact distance greatly varies from a person to another… Good luck.

Science has now answered lots of questions concerning this mysterious female area, but female orgasm is and remains a complex phenomenon wherein g-spot plays an important role.

So, what can us men do about what we have down south? And what do women really want from us and our members? Is it sheer size they want? Length? Girth? Both? Neither? The whole thing’s a quagmire of uncertainty and guesswork – at least, on the surface. You see, when you actually ask women (under the right circumstances!) what matters to them regarding their sexual partner’s penis size, you get some interesting and pretty encouraging answers. First off, a large portion of women do love BIG penises, simply because of the pleasure that they can so often bring. The majority of women aren’t size queens, however, but DO universally look and hope for two definite attributes in the penis of their potential partners, neither of which relates to size. The first can be classified as ‘power’ & ‘strength’, the second is lasting power. Power and strength in a penis is shown through it’s hardness when erect and the angle at which it points. A weak erection is quite soft and droopy, a powerful erection, full of strength, is the opposite: rock hard, meaty and robust – and it’s what women crave, and savour when they encounter it. Lasting power, as you can probably guess, is quite simply an ability to use that rock hard erection for a long enough time period, without ejaculating too soon. So, how can a guy improve his penis strength and give it more weight and power and an improved angle of erection? The answer lies in a simple exercise, performed every other day of the week for a couple of months. Its effectiveness is noticeable in just a couple of weeks, but its true capability can produce amazing results that last a lifetime.

TOWEL HANGING:

Step 1: Massage yourself to a full erection.

Step 2: Place a LIGHT flannel or wash-cloth onto your penis near the base.

Step 3: ‘Tense’ your penis so it bobs gently, lifting the towel a little. Tensing and releasing once constitutes one repetition.

Step 4: Do up to 25 reps, but stop if you feel you can’t do that many. Do 25 reps every other day of the week for a few weeks.

Once you’ve been performing towel hanging for a while, you’ll notice 2 main results: First, your penis will be rock hard when you have an erection, veins will be more noticeable and it will look and feel weightier. Many men even report an added half inch in length and girth due to the increased blood flow to the penis. Second, your ability to hold back from ejaculating while masturbating and having sex will be massively increased. The reason for this is because you’re exercising your PC muscle when you do towel hanging, which is central to the functioning of your penis and is also what triggers ejaculation prematurely when it’s unfit and un-toned.

Roger is a ‘personal trainer’ at PenisAdvantage – a site containing a guide that details exactly how any guy can enlarge his penis using natural exercises and techniques, as well as how to improve their sexual performance, restore their foreskin or correct a curve in their erect penis.