The key to a fantastic love life is stressing love – work on your relationship every day and the headaches will magically be cured. Talk to your wife every single day, and I mean really listening to her, to her problems and her worries. Let her express her fears and you will be opening a wide road for her to express her desires.

Studies show that men who do shores also get more sex. So do the dishes, clean the house, cook some meals. You don’t have to do anything fancy, just show her you consider that sharing is not just about having sex but also about sharing the work and the problems.

Safety is also very important. And I don’t mean safe sex. Women need to feel safe in order to let themselves go. If you want fantastic sex hold your wife in your arms before and after making love, snuggle her at night, hug her all the time.

And on the subject of hugging, don’t forget about passionate kisses. Don’t ever let a day go by without kissing your wife like it was the first time. In fact, always act as if you were still trying to make her fall in love with you – send her love letters, bring her a rose, go out on a date.

Spicing up your relationship has a lot to do with remembering the times when you were just dating. If you want to have more sex you need to be the ultimate romantic, you need to go back to your high school years and act like a boy who was just struck by unbelievable love. Your wife will watch her dreams come true and, in exchange, you will get terrific sex that will scare the neighbors.